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Archive for January, 2012

During my winter travels I’m often confronted with a variety of misconceptions about charisma; what it is and how does it transform the performance of an organisation.

People hold a stereotypical image in their mind that charismatic individuals are maverick extroverts with big personalities. This contradicts my own theory based on 30 years of research that charisma will only flow when the individual is being authentic and is working with a sense of personal purpose.

These misconceptions spread into an organisational context where leaders feel wary about possessing ‘more charisma’ because it is often perceived as a ‘La La’ skill that could place their business at greater levels of risk. Robert Maxwell, Fred Goodwin and Rupert Murdoch play out these stereotypes creating a negative attitude towards the whole concept of charisma and the value of charismatic leadership.

Yet organisations with challenging performance and productivity targets can find almost instantaneous benefits by developing the charismatic potential of their workforce. The quality of an engine fuel will directly impact on a vehicle’s performance. What we eat will affect our emotions, energy and health. In the same way, when an individual is operating from their authentic self and feels passionately about their work, they stimulate a flow of energy, thereby triggering the utilisation of their charismatic potential.

This unseen ‘power’ can be hugely beneficial to customer service representatives who find it easier to connect with their customers, even over the phone. One major pitfall of a customer service training programme is that individuals often pay lip service to what is required of them and can end up delivering a customer service process as automated robots, going through a script. Customers sense the difference between service delivered from the heart and superficial platitudes delivered from the head. Charisma ignites the customer service process so that customer interventions become unique and special creating a significant difference in customer attitudes towards that organisation.

Additionally, employees who are delivering service from their hearts are more engaged, more committed and more motivated than their ‘going through the motions’ peers. These charismatic individuals trigger a natural process of transmitting their positive energy so that the culture of a department can evolve organically from the mindset and charisma of just one or two individuals. In Quantum Physics this phenomenon is called entrainment – where particles and waves natural synchronise together.

In 2004, in conjunction with Vic Conant, President of Nightingale Conant we embarked upon the world’s biggest piece of sales research ever undertaken. 2663 organisations shared their views on barriers to sustainable sales success and the special ingredient that sets the top twenty percent of sales superstars apart from other sales people. Findings showed that charisma is the difference that makes a huge difference to successful sales people. Since that time I have been able to replicate charisma in any individual by working from the ‘inside out’ so the individual’s authenticity is upheld with integrity.

Early studies conducted since 2008 indicate that teaching people to activate more of their charismatic potential can benefit not just customer service and sales teams, it can benefit project managers, leaders, Heads of Departments and talent.
As many of today’s businesses are feeling ‘forced’ to make cutbacks, go back to basics and keep things operationally ‘tight’ it creates an unconscious chain of fear, pessimism and anxiety within customers who are craving their feel good fix. There is no such thing as ‘business as usual’ because the usual methods will leave organisations floundering under the weight of a tough global economy.

Charisma is a sustainable feel good fix that leads to high levels of productivity, high workforce engagement and customers who become raving fans of that organisation.

A few years ago Emotional Intelligence and Insights Personality Profiling were considered a soft and abstract ‘nice to have’ – today successful organisations have embraced the power of these tools, realising that workforce and customer engagement requires a ‘from the heart’ approach. One day in the short-term future, organisations will accept that this elusive thing we call ‘charisma’ is in reality an accelerated route to sustainable business success. As a pioneer of charisma within an organisational context I will continue to develop further case studies to prove conclusively that charisma directy impacts the bottom line.

Whilst the rain batters my office window with a relentless rhythm, I notice a flock of Canada Geese on the river prepare for their long journey homewards. Their V-shaped formation conserves energy and enables them to keep track of every bird in the group. Synergy and engagement combined with an instinctual sense of teamwork and common purpose. A perfect charismatic example to conclude this week’s blog!


Watching the news, reading the papers, managing a business, relationship issues, getting the kids to school, money worries and physical ailments can raise our stress levels alarmingly. We need this automatic response to survive a hostile environment yet elevated and prolonged stress can play havov with our emotions, our decisions and general well-being. As adrenaline and cortisone (the stress hormones) flood our body, our breathing becomes shallow, muscles tense up, the immune system is suppressed and the sleep process is blocked.

During my sessions for The Academy for Chief Executives, I often see overwhelming numbers of Leaders who complain of anxiety attacks, waking up at 3am full of dread about the future and unbridled rage that they feel out of control.
Interestingly, it is impossible to feel stressed when you are fully accessing your charismatic potential.

When you are being you and you are loving what you do you shine. Charisma is naturally released from our hearts when we feel confident in who we are. Charisma flows when our work has personal meaning so we naturally activate high levels of dynamism and passion. Charisma requires acute sensory awareness whereby you trust your emotional guidance system and listen to your instincts. Charismatic individuals exude high levels of energy and have a compelling vision that stirs their senses so they appear more ‘alive’ that other people.

Often when people are stressed they create a wall of protection, a mask they can retreat behind, aspects of their personality become exaggerated and extreme – the real authentic person disappears and we meet the shell or superficial layer of a person and it naturally unsettles us. Trying to keep up this facade is exhausting. Imagine trying to hold a beach ball under water for hours, let alone days and months – the process of suppressing drains energy and positivity.
Working with peoples’ charisma at Shakespeare’s Globe Theatre has enabled me to study the impact of charisma on stress levels and I can confidently claim that it does.
One of my mentors in 2007 – 2009, Les Greve, Energy Therapist, devotes over 60% of his time providing energetic interventions to people suffering from emotional issues that ignite their stress levels. Being a big fan of Les’s work, I’ve asked him to turn up my own energy levels this weekend so that I can become a Reiki Master. As I’ve grown older I’ve noticed the key role energy plays in every aspect of our lives. There is a saying: “Energy flows where our focus goes” – if your focusing on worry, debt, recessions, aches and pains then this is the quickest way to drain your energy and invite in stress.

My top tips for dealing with stress so you release more of your natural charisma:


1. Visit an Emotional Freedom Techniques Practitioner who can unblock your energy and clear your negative emotions.
2. Take up meditation – even for just 5 minutes a day because it will create a chemical change in your frontal lobe and boost your immune system
3. Cut out coffee – it is absolute poison and feeds your stress so it will grow
4. Visit a chiropractor who can let you know how you are manifesting stress in your body (tense, nervous headaches? grinding teeth in your sleep?)
5. Get your chakras balanced – chakras are now a widely accepted term in the scientific community – they are the ‘gateways’ where energy enters and exits the body. If one of your chakras is blocked or sluggish this will place great strain on your overall body.
6. Take up a hobby or pastime that makes you laugh – visit a Comedy Store or take up Laughter Yoga! Laughter boost the immune system and releases serotonin into your bloodstream.
7. Learn HeartMath breathing to help transform everyday challenges into healthier, more resilient and productive energy.
8.Drink more water. Studies have shown that being just half a litre dehydrated will increase cortisol levels.
9. Walk in nature because a series of studies published in the Journal of Environment Psychology, June 2010 conclude that a 20 minute walk significantly boosts energy and vitality.
10. Adopt an attitude of acceptance – stress occurs only when you are trying to swim against the flow. An unpleasant circumstance met with the ‘right attitude’ can be a positive factor in your life. Through acceptance you stop wasing emotional energy and start finding creative ways to make the situation better.
Have a calm, centred and balanced week!

During my seminars at The Globe, I’m often asked how I reconcile leaders who choose to exploit their charisma for malevolent purposes. When observing old film footage of Hitler, I could feel his intensity and see his effect on others created a strong physical reaction. A frightening combination of charisma and evil. Former boss of RBS, Fred Goodwin’s charisma was a major factor when persuading his board to support his strategic policies that ultimately played a major role in the biggest 2008 losses in corporate history. Charisma, combined with megalomania and greed is not a good combination for business success. These men clearly demonstrate that such is the power of charisma, there is a mantle of responsibility because this ‘charismatic power’ can be used for both good and evil intent.
Yet this need not deter an individual from wanting to develop their impact, presence and influence because my own studies prove conclusively that charisma equips the individual who possesses it with a significant advantage. Interestingly, people tend to stereotype charismatic individuals as having big personalities, being extrovert and maverick. Yet there are many examples of introverted and quieter charismatic people. For example, Mother Teresa, the late Princess of Wales and Richard Branson. I recognised that anyone holds the potential to be more charismatic – the secret is be yourself and do what you love doing.
On the subject of charismatic women, last night I attended the book launch of Jessica Richards, a personal transformation specialist and leadership mentor, who has published a moving account of how she beat cancer using a holistic approach. Jessica oozes authenticity and has shown such courage with the way she’s dealt with this frightening disease. When charismatic people such as Jessica, use their power for positive intent, it can inspire and transform the lives of thousands.
If you want to meet a bunch of charismatic individuals then pop into Pub du Vin’s Dome Room, Brighton on Monday 16th January at 5.30pm because I’ll be sharing my blueprint showing how everyone can optimise their charisma in a way that remains true and unique for them.
Have a great week!

According to data from the NHS Information Centre, the use of antidepressants and sleeping pills has jumped 20% in just three years. Paul Farmer, Chief Executive of the health charity Mind, cited the tough economic times may have contributed to more people experiencing depression. This has enormous implications on the potential (or not) for profitability and growth during these tough trading times. It is now an accepted fact that the morale of a workforce can be correlated and linked to levels of stress and consequently absenteeism.
During adverse times the role of the leadership team will determine whether the business or organisation adopts a fighting spirit or whether employees sink into a quagmire of negativity and fear.
Studies show that leaders who demonstrate high levels of charisma are seven times more likely to create a motivated and engaged workforce when compared to leaders who are equally competent yet lack than presence and impact.
Many organisations experience the impact of a depressed workforce yet fail to realise that depression means a massive drop in overall energy and low energy immediately creates apathy, tiredness, stress and illness. I call this The Rotten Apple Syndrome because the moment you allow negativity to breed, even in just one person you’ll notice that it spreads like a contagious disease infecting everyone.
The good news is that organisations, businesses and individuals can adopt easy steps that instantly boost energy, morale, confidence and motivation. By changing workforce attitudes you will leverage the organisation’s potential for growth and success.
Happy New Year knowing that it is when we are experiencing the toughest moments in our life we are being handed a wonderful opportunity to grow and develop.