My life has a rather surreal quality to it at the moment and many of my past actions are manifesting ‘Showtime Moments’ that are brilliant fun. Last weekend I delivered my rather ‘woo’ charisma keynote to hundreds of professional speakers at their national conference. I then ended up on stage again blowing bubbles to support the talented Celia Delaney in her one woman show after an evening of several glasses of wine!!!
Yesterday The Daily Mail featured a major article on my life and the work I do on charisma. They choose my controversial Big Apple Experiment as an angle and it will certainly get people talking!!!
Today I am in Berlin at the HR Summit meeting new organisations in a type of ’speed dating like’ schedule to generate contracts for 2016. Berlin is a lively blend of different cultures and reminds me of the iconic 1930s movie Cabaret that was filmed and set in Berlin. When HR Directors meet potential new suppliers they perform a dance of communication that flushes out whether there is alignment and a desire to engage. In my mind I can hear Sally Bowles singing “Maybe this time I’ll be lucky”.
You and I both know that we create our own luck through the power of our focused intent. When you have a goal that consumes your every waking thought combined with the belief that you can attain that which you desire then you engage the magic of the Universe.
We are continually transmitting and receiving information on a particular frequency and that frequency is shaped by the emotions we feel. If you feel angry, frustrated and cross that things just don’t go your way then your vibration attracts situations, events and people that validate and reinforce these emotions. If you feel deep gratitude for what you have in your life then you attract more of the same. You can’t attract positivity on a negative frequency in the same way that you can’t hear Classic FM on the Radio 1 frequency.
So when life begins to shower you with wonderful surprises and positive moments you know that your inner being is in flow and the relationship between your conscious and unconscious mind is in harmony. If life is offering up a different perspective then there are lessons that you haven’t quite learned yet. If you notice patterns in your life, similarities that occur, emotions that you loop through time and time again, ask yourself this question: “What am I not noticing that I now need to pay attention to?”
As I look back on the tough times in my life I can see how each difficulty gave me a gift. As my life evolved so did my own emotional development. Out of my self-loathing I learned self-acceptance. From anger I learned how to forgive. When I was deeply scared and would awaken in the dark hours of the night with heart palpitations I learned courage. When I encountered setbacks and failure, over and over again I developed resilience and mental toughness.
There is always a precious gift in everything yet sometimes it takes time for us to receive it. Nowadays I have learned to stop judging whether something is good or bad. Everything is just life orchestrating opportunities for our own evolution in this lifetime. As with any good, entertaining cabaret act there are moments of poignant sadness mingled with the delicious highs of excitement. It is the contrast, the comparisons, the differences that expand our awareness and improve the content of our character.
There is little point harbouring negative emotions from your past because that simply makes it harder to get the gift, the gold nugget of truth that enables you to transcend into the next vibrational frequency. So why not take a deep breath, relax and allow your life to ebb and flow with the synchronicity of universal experiences. After all there is no dress rehearsal we are playing the leading role in our own lives. We can decide to go for what we truly desire or we can sell out on our dreams.
Are you ready to come to the cabaret?