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The Apprentice loses shabby Shibby

October 21st 2010 by Nikki Owen | Charisma on TV

Dr Shibby Robati was rightly fired from last night’s episode of The Apprentice. I couldn’t quite process his remark to the chef he let down “go on the Atkin’s diet” unless of course he has negotiated a sponsorship deal with the Atkins corporation! Maybe that’s why doctors with absolutely no bedside manner opt to become surgeons. A nice guy yet completely ineffectual who looked continually hen-pecked by his team’s stronger female candidates. Paloma Vivanco has a cool assured style that I’d like to witness in a team leader role yet Sandeesh Samra behaved like a saboteur on a picnic.

I’m pretty sure that Melissa Cohen is really Tintin’s brainy sister or has styled herself on the amazonian Brigitte Nielsen. Yet her assertive and forceful management style proved to be a front for indecision and insecurity. The irritating egotistical style that Stuart Baggs adopted during Episode 1 appears to have gone on the missing list (what a relief) and my two favourite candidates this evening? Christopher Farrell shone last night in an operational role and Jamie Lester who clearly wanted the project management role, continued to support a very lucky Melissa despite his apparent misgivings.

The Apprentice – Week 2

October 14th 2010 by Nikki Owen | Charisma on TV

What a difference a week makes! The Beach Accessory task certainly highlighted the variance of approaches adopted by the female candidates.
Stella English absolutely shone this week and was the epitome of inspirational leadership; professional, decisive and full of gravitas. Despite feeling uncomfortable about posing in a swimsuit she provided a ‘pleasurable moment’ for the boys and still retained their respect. Her intuitive reaction to replace Chris Bates as chief presenter with the quietly impressive Jamie Lester was bang on. Ultimately, after Chris’s reaction she took the decision to let him present ensuring his ongoing engagement and commitment to the task.
After Stella’s great role-model performance on behalf of female businesswomen everywhere we were then shown powerful examples of the other end of the spectrum. I was surprised Alan Sugar didn’t fire Laura Moore (who impressed me last week) as well as Joy Stefanicki. Laura’s failure to control and harness the potential of her team caused her to react with childlike tantrums despite overlooking the fact she chose to turn down the offer of an exclusive deal with Boots, thereby hamstringing her team with a humiliating defeat – zero orders!
Joy Stefanicki was completely ineffective, moany, apologetic, emotional in a ‘victim’ way and was a clear mis-match for the type of individual Sir Alan is likely to employ. Joy has so many insecurities that I struggled to understand why she would want to throw herself into the Lion’s Den when she is clearly suited to a softer  type of job role. When I look at Joy, I see a little girl who never quite sparkled as much as other little girls causing her to feel isolated, not good enough and possessing a deep-seated desire to feel loved. Watching her during week one’s task she often displayed ‘clownish’ and immature behaviour that was her way of crying out “notice me”. Actually Joy I did notice you. I think that being fired so early on in the series was a blessing. Find an environment, a career that satisfies what is really important to you -then you’ll realise how much you can shine when you feel secure and comfortable.
My last mention has to go to the feisty Joanna Riley. Her eyes convey a passionate intensity with determination in bucket loads – she absolutely wants this opportunity. Yes she was aggressive, grabbed the glory for herself and managed to upset most of her team. Yet for me, this young woman has the hallmarks of becoming a truly charismatic leader one day as long as she manages to develop some sensory acuity and learns the power of humility.

The Apprentice – Series 6

October 7th 2010 by Nikki Owen | Charisma on TV

Well, after just one episode of series 6 of The Apprentice I am well and truly hooked! As the UKs Leading Expert on Confidence and Charisma the eclectic mix of candidates creates a fascinating showground for demonstrating the impact of charisma, Emotional IQ and authenticity. It was pure genius to throw candidates completely off centre by starting their task at midnight. This brilliant pattern interrupt to their preconceived ideas added a whole new layer of stress into their sausage-making task.
The first candidate to catch my eye was Laura Moore when she suggested the team name – Apollo. She gave a well-thought through reason for her suggestion in a calm, neutral way that was loaded with an air of authority. Laura is very driven yet she has constructed a protective façade around herself as evidenced from the location of her breathing – her throat. I sense she has disconnected from her true feelings and sometimes struggles to speak from her heart. I think she is an emotional cauldron that could bubble over in times of heightened stress.
Dan Harris must have modelled himself on Gordon Gekko or Margaret Thatcher yet his lack of gravitas, charisma and feelings of deep insecurity ruined his ability to engage and inspire the team. Every time he asked a question he used a commanding voice tonality (a downward inflection at the end of a sentence) that ordered and bullied the boys into doing what he wanted. He managed to create a ‘choking effect’ not just on himself on the whole team because his intense erratic energy lacked focus and purposeful intent. When Dan was most stressed he folded his arms creating a barrier between himself and others – even in the boardroom with Sir Alan Sugar he crossed his legs as if being guided by his unconscious mind to defend himself from further attacks. Dan Harris has experienced defeats, setbacks, disappointments and failures – you can see this in his eyes and his simmering sense of injustice makes him more forceful instead of learning life’s lessons.
The Blonde Bobcat, Melissa Cohen has great impact. Her energy is high and she has a wonderful mix of enthusiasm, passion and steely drive. She appears to lack sensory awareness of others yet my instincts tell me she knows what she is doing and intends to stand out by being her natural and assertive self. Her behaviour appeared to be authentic and genuinely a reflection of herself and although we can see she has the ability to create friction I think she has the potential to be a strong contender for the job!
I can’t even bring myself to talk about Stuart Baggs – arrogant little …. He touches a nerve in me and makes me SO ANGRY!!!
Quick mentions to Raleigh Addington with his passionate delivery of his ‘shameful’ line and Jamie Lester’s ability to look dignified when under attack from Stuart Baggs. My final thought is with Alex Epstein, in the male team that is overflowing with testosterone and ego drive, Alex is highly in touch with his feminine side. Next week notice how often his head moves towards the left side of his body and how often he makes gestures with his left hand. For those of you wondering about the significance of the ‘left side’ – in Eastern culture the left side of the body is associated with feminine energy, often the mother and the ‘right side’ is linked to masculine energy, the father. I suspect that Alex’s mum is a strong woman who has exerted a powerful influence over her son. Alex’s feminine energy will work as a good balance for the boys and he will be seen as non-threatening.
I feel I should leave the last word to Sir Alan Sugar “ There’s only room for one bigmouth in my organisation, and that’s me.”

Authentic, driven and highly charismatic!

Rose dazzles on Daybreak TV!

October 4th 2010 by Nikki Owen | Charisma on TV

This year has been great fun in media terms and now I’ve just watched my sixteen year-old daughter, Rose make her debut TV appearance on Daybreak with Adrian Chiles and Christine Bleakley. Rose, can I have my earrings back?!

Watching Strictly Come Dancing on Saturday I fell in love with Anne Widdicombe – an authentic and true individual who clearly has a wonderful sense of humour! In comparison to many of the other celebrities appearing on the show Anne demonstrated that ‘being yourself’ enables you to shine in your own unique way. Personally I can’t wait to see her Rumba!
Watching Robbie Williams and Gary Barlow close the show with their newly released single Shame I was reminded of the power of Robbie’s presence. Many would argue that Gary Barlow’s singing is superior yet Robbie absolutely oozes charisma. During An Audience with Charisma seminars, UK’s leading photographer of charismatic icons, Paul Webb, captures the physical transformation of delegates as their charismatic potential emerges. Paul has photographed Robbie and has some amazing stories about the man and he continues to remain one of our favourite examples of an individual with huge presence.

This year’s X Factor has been bursting with so much talent – choosing the top three performers for each category was super difficult, even from the comfort of my sofa! I witnessed fantastic singers being over-looked for acts that were contemporary ‘fresh’ and different. Being absolutely authentic is a vital component to being charismatic – very important if you want to win The X Factor and the viewing public instinctively respond well to performers who are happy being themselves.

This week as the start of The Apprentice beckons I’ll be reviewing the candidates who I believe are being themselves, those that have an abundance of charisma and those that are purely seeking sensationalism and hedonistic fame!!!!

Have a great week

Tony Blair – the demise of charisma

September 2nd 2010 by Nikki Owen | Charisma on TV

During my charisma seminars at The Globe Theatre, Tony Blair’s name crops up as an example of a Prime Minister who when he first came to power was very charismatic. Given that ‘charisma’ is always on my radar I remember when Blair, who had been Prime Minister for less than three months gave an emotional announcement about the death of Princess Diana. At the time (31st August 1997) I recall noticing that there was something about Tony Blair’s ‘performance’ that lacked authenticity. It felt brilliantly acted and well-executed, particularly his line “She was the people’s princess” yet I thought he appeared to be faking the intensity of his emotion.
Yesterday, Tony Blair’s biography – A Journey: My Political Life was published revealing a well-manicured account of personal anecdotes of his political career. His betrayal of Gordon Brown, the arrogance with which he takes full credit for so many good things and the indiscretion when he talks about meeting The Queen – literally took my breath away! When he first became Prime Minister his vision for this country and his passion for doing the best for the people was like a breath of fresh air.
Today his vision is masked by naked ambition to earn as much money as he can. His well-crafted ‘excuses’ around Iraq hold the potential for being plausible yet this man is totally delusional – his ego has over-taken his humility. Whilst he is still a confident, articulate communicator, he fails to speak from his heart and today has lost the charismatic presence that won him Britain’s top job.

Tony Blair's Biography

Watching Big Brother is watching a microcosm of society where human flaws are exposed and the viewer can become absorbed in the mundane living of housemates where every little nuance is emotionally loaded with tension and expectation. Energetic flow builds presence and impact so for me watching this programme is a powerful reminder of the impact self-esteem, confidence and genuine interest in others plays in either stimulating or draining energy from the house.
The basic unit of all life, the cell, exists only because it is held together by energy. The atoms and molecules that make up a cell also exist because their various parts are held together by bonds of energy. Energy is the force that moves things, because it contains the information that tells systems how to move. If you expose energetic systems (people) to negative information you impair their ability to move. Alternatively, if you expose people to a positive environment this stimulates the flow of energy inside and around them that creates an invisible aura of good vibrations.
Your energy is a great indicator of your emotional thoughts and is a life-force that many people are unconsciously aware of yet with more conscious awareness you can build higher levels of satisfaction in every area of your life.
May the force be with you, this week!

Final debate who’s on top!!

May 5th 2010 by Nikki Owen | Charisma on TV, General

Nick Clegg

His biggest skill is his ability to pace, reflect the feelings of the majority of the people – he uses language we can understand and he delivers what he has to say with utter conviction – you believe him. He is more animated than the other two candidates, uses bigger gestures and appears more natural/less rehearsed. He uses lots of light and shade in his voice so he ‘sounds’ interesting and he uses highly emotive language that is designed to elicit an emotional reaction:

“The style of old politics”

“Shadows of our economy, shadows of our society”

“In tears”

“Get real”

He talks in a bigger picture, more abstract way that cleverly gains agreement because the more detailed you are (Such as Gordon Brown) the more likely you are to create disagreement.

Nick Clegg is selling ‘utopia’ and he uses his position as middle-man to explain to the viewers what David Cameron and Gordon Brown are really saying so he positions himself as one of us.

His relaxed hand-in-pocket posture exudes he is relaxed and not phoney.

As the debate progressed his lack of experience and naïve views were highlighted yet he was absolutely performing at his peak for 80% of the debate.

 Gordon Brown

He is very detailed which demonstrates how smart he is, yet I believe this goes over the heads of most of the viewers. His whole approach was about linking fear and panic to the other parties. “Let us not make a mistake” He was aggressive and very attacking of  Cameron – he kept repeating his point about inheritance tax regardless of its relevance to the initial question. This is a clever way to reinforce a point – repetition is used in every advertising campaign. He looks but doesn’t see because he is so caught up in the content of his thoughts so he doesn’t ‘connect with the viewer –

His best moment was his response to the banker’s bonus question when he appeared utterly credible. There was a moment when he was talking about his mother and he softened – if he could show more of this side of him he would be so much more appealing.

Looks rigid, old school, like a man struggling – his words were negative.

 David Cameron

Appeared more nervous than the other two as evidenced by his rate of blinking and when he is nervous he appears ‘stiffer’. Yet as the debate progressed he relaxed and his performance steadily improved. His pace was measured and he looked unflustered and in control especially impressive given the amount of attacks he received from Gordon Brown. He appeared reasonable and knowledgeable – the only small mistake he made was when he referred to “the questioner” he could have used their name. Solid assured performance not as dynamic as Nick Clegg yet built credibility as debate progressed.

 Ties

Did you notice their ties? David Cameron was wearing his usual blue coloured tie yet Gordon Brown’s was purple with white spots? An attempt to visually show he was trendy and contemporary perhaps. Nick Clegg’s tie was orange – what do you get if you mix red and yellow? Was he unconsciously conveying his preference of party alliance?

Enter stage left…Nick Clegg!

April 22nd 2010 by Nikki Owen | Charisma on TV

Last Thursday, political history was made when the UK held its first ever live debate between the party leaders. I was asked by news channel, Aljazeera to share my views on the level of confidence and charisma demonstrated by each party leader. If you are a subscriber to my Monthly e-Bulletin then you would have read some of my thoughts on the leaders prior to the debate. I must confess that I, like many,  was taken by surprise –  Nick Clegg absolutely shone that night, speaking with authenticity and passion. Gordon Brown’s gravitas gave him a strong presence, yet for me his carefully orchestrated hand gestures looked contrived and controlling. David Cameron, who had the most to lose by participating in this debate, was like a large jumbo jet that never quite got off the ground; polished paintwork, impressive to look at yet didn’t fly. If ever there was an example to demonstrate the impact and power of charisma then this debate was it!

 Since last Thursday’s debate, the Liberal Democrats have seen a massive surge in popularity, mainly in part to Nick Clegg’s performance. In my last newsletter, I asked the rhetorical question about replicating the Obama phenomenon. Who really would have thought that within a few days The Guardian would be likening Clegg to the President of the United States?  Possessing charisma does increase your ability to influence others more effectively! I’m looking forward to ‘Round 2’ tonight and will again be sharing my views on  Aljazeera at 10.00pm.  

Special mention to Tommy Boyd who interviewed me on Friday for Sun Talk Radio - remember when he co-presented the children’s programme Magpie in the late 1970s? What a lovely man – thoroughly enjoyed our chat.

Have a great week!

The final episode of Kitchen Sink to Catwalk saw the winner, Sam Hughes, secure herself a modelling contract with the agency Models One. Several weeks earlier I had spent half a day with the contestants at the Globe to help build their confidence. Taking part in a competition like this was always likely to throw up feelings of self doubt, so you can imagine my joy to watch these ladies sweep such emotions aside to ooze confidence and charisma on the catwalk . Well done ladies! It has been a  privilege working with you – may this be the first step in your next exciting adventure!!

 This week heralds the start of my Audience with Charisma Tour starting at Shakespeare’s globe Theatre – the delegate list encompasses a wide variety of individuals from very different job roles and backgrounds – can’t wait – bring it on! 

 We’ve received an apple photo from Daisy who will be 12 next week – she is our youngest apple experimenter. She is so excited by her results that she is trying to persuade her school to take part. I’m planning to interview Daisy for our next ebulletin to find out what a young mind got from doing this study on positive thinking and apples. Daisy’s apple photo is up on my facebook page and shows a distinct difference between the LOVE and HATE halves.

The Big Apple Experiment is generating all sorts of interest from both individuals and the media. What started out as a simple hypothesis to test some of the work by Dr Masaru Emoto has truly polarised opinion.  Several experimenters have reported how wonderful they feel when they announce positive messages and by contrast how difficult they find it to be hateful – and this is just with an apple!  One lady told me that after the first day she could not continue with the experiment as she really did not like having to say ‘negative things out loud’ – it didn’t make her feel good about herself.

 Have a great week!

This week started with a great feature in Monday’s Daily Mail about my ‘Big Apple Experiment’. For the experiment we are asking the general public to help us test the hypothesis that our thoughts and feelings have an immediate and visible effect on our physical appearance and our sense of wellbeing – and that this can even extend to an inanimate object such as an apple! Despite the fact that this controversial subject has polarised opinion, over 70% of the results from ‘apple experimenters’ have shown a visible difference between the LOVE and HATE apples. Please keep submitting your entries on my Facebook, all those who do could win an IPOD Nano  or a free place at one of my Audience with Charisma seminars in our free prize draw at the end of April.

 The final episode of ‘Kitchen Sink to Catwalk’ is showing next Tuesday, during this programme the viewer will discover which of the six housewives will land the Models One modelling contract. It has been a privilege to work with the contestants during the series and to see how much their confidence and self-assurance has grown during this process.

 On the subject of confidence, last Saturday I attended a charity version of ‘Strictly Come Dancing’ to support my brother and his wife – had there been a prize for the most charismatic couple they would definitely have won it! Perhaps I am not being completely objective!

 Have a great week!