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A report by Hilary Osbourne in today’s Guardian reveals that British workers are feeling less secure and more pressured at work than at any time in the past 20 years, with pay cuts and diminished control over their jobs among the biggest concerns.

The Economic and Social Research Council and the UK Commission for Employment and Skills six-yearly survey into employee wellbeing interviewed more than 3,000 workers aged between 20 and 60 in 2012. For the first time since 1997, public sector workers were more concerned about losing their jobs than those in the private sector. The research showed that job stress has gone up and job-related wellbeing has gone down since 2006. People reported working harder, with both the speed of work and pressures of working to tight deadlines rising to record highs.

Interestingly however, the researchers said that employees were more content and less anxious about job or status loss “where employers adopted policies that gave employees a degree of involvement in decision-making at work”.

Prof Alan Felstead of the Cardiff School of Social Sciences, said: “The slowness with which employers in Britain are enhancing employee participation is becoming an issue of considerable concern.”

The Chartered Institute of Personal and Development said the survey made worrying reading. Peter Cheese, chief executive at the CIPD, said ,“What’s good for people is good for business, and if we can embrace that truth to build cultures in which people want to work and are unified by a common purpose, we can not only prevent catastrophes, we can truly build more sustainable economic growth.”

Elsewhere in the news this month, paragon of employee participation John Lewis announced their plan to offer it’s staff the chance to study for ‘degrees’ under a work based scheme dubbed “University of John Lewis”. The staff owned retailer plans to offer senior managers a level 6 vocational equivalent to an honours degree by the end of the year. Last year 1,330 John Lewis partners gained a retail diploma, with a third picking up a level 3 qualification, which is at a standard equivalent to A -Levels.

John Lewis personnel director, Laura Whyte, said “Our partners give us the competitive edge, and if we want them to stay with us for the long term, we need to make sure that they have the right skills to meet the challenges we face in an evolving retail environment.”

Unlike many of it’s rivals, Waitrose, the upmarket supermarket arm of the John Lewis Group, has benefitted from their clean bill of health during the recent horsemeat scandal, reporting an 11% increase in sales in the last three months. The retailer reports that customers trusted the stores over it’s competitors and that it had been winning shoppers from Tescos – one of the worst – affected grocers. According to the latest Kantar Worldpanel retail data, Waitrose market share grew to 4.9% in April, compared with 4.5% last year, gaining customers faster than Tesco, Asda, Sainsbury’s and Morrisons combined.

As an aside, leading London Estate Agents Foxtons have reported that the announcement of a new Waitrose store opening actually increases property prices in the location!

In an economic environment where most experts agree that employee wellbeing has been on the decline since 2006, it is good to see an organisation that is not only bucking the trend, but seems to be growing as a result of it’s investment in, and commitment to it’s people.

One can only speculate as to whether or not the way that this organisation looks after their people had any bearing on the fact that they were one of the very few that kept clear of the recent horsemeat scandal? All I know is that on balance, the more engaged, secure,valued and consulted we feel as employees ( or even better ‘partners’), the more likely we are to speak up when we see something in the workplace that is clearly wrong.

“I think we’re a business that has got a heart and soul, which we haven’t lost through the economic downturn, and we want to help our customers while being true to our principles.”
Mark Price, Managing Director, Waitrose UK Limited

“A man is the sum of his actions, of what he has done, of what he can do. Nothing else.”

Mahatma Ghandi

There is now an increasing body of research supporting the opinion that within organisations, developing charismatic leaders is one of the most effective (and cost effective) ways to positively impact upon pretty well everything from team performance, productivity and creative thinking to empowerment, engagement and employee morale.

There is still however, a stereotypical image that a charismatic leader needs to be a confident extrovert with a big personality. This standardized view will probably go on to expect that a leader relying on their charismatic presence will be looking to appeal to our emotions, rather than getting too bogged down with facts and figures. They will be very ‘big picture’, and as such, should generally be viewed with a healthy degree of scepticism. In the world of politics leaders described as ‘charismatic’ are often viewed with cautious suspicion – and I have no doubt that we can all think of plenty of examples of where history has proved that they absolutely should be!

Our definition of charisma is that it is ‘an authentic power that captivates the hearts and minds of others’. This definition differs from the stereotypical view in two key ways, the first of which being that we do not believe that an extrovert ‘big personality’ nature is a pre-requisite to being charismatic. On the contrary, because we believe that the single most important factor that determines an individual’s charisma is the extent that they are able to ‘captivate hearts and minds’, our model very much supports the view that quietly confident, introverted people can be every bit as charismatic as their more self-publicising counterparts.

This view is supported by a recent study reported in Business Week showing that a more reserved style of introverted leaders can actually inspire better performance in followers. Researchers Adam Grant of the Wharton School, Francesca Gino of Harvard Business School, and David Hofmann at the University of North Carolina found that if the employees are an extroverted, proactive bunch by nature, the team will perform better under the leadership of an introvert than under an extrovert. The study goes on to explain that introverted leaders are more likely to take a team approach to problem-solving and to let talented team members spread their wings.

Within our own experience I am sure that we can all think back to leaders, managers, teachers or mentors who have patiently drawn out our opinions, encouraged our creativity and have genuinely valued and shown appreciation for our contributions to the achievement of a collective goal. These people may not all have met the regulation blueprint of a charismatic leader, but they managed to ‘captivate our hearts and minds’ none-the-less. When we think of charisma, many of the icons of the genre that come to mind do not appear to be extroverts at all, and many, like Mahatma Ghandi, Marilyn Monroe, Princess Diana and even Robbie Williams, often showed a vulnerability that somewhat disproves the claim that you need to be consistently confident to be charismatic.

The other way in which our definition of charisma differs from the stereotypical view is that we believe that the second factor that determines how much an individual is seen to be charismatic, is the extent to which we perceive them to be ‘authentic’.In business, as in politics, alarm bells start to ring when a leader’s ‘from the heart’ emotional response seems a bit too coached or contrived. When the words just don’t match with the body-language, and especially when our hard-wired unconscious mind just feels that there is something less than authentic about them, we will experience a negative reaction that we often can’t quite explain logically.

This may well be why we love our sporting heroes to be charismatic in the absolute stereotypical –big, brash, confident, sense of the word! When Muhammad Ali, with absolute unshakeable self-confidence, stared down the camera and stated that he was ‘The Greatest’, we believed him, and we didn’t start looking for any hidden agendas, because there were none. I would go as far as to say that we expect our sporting heroes self-esteem to be developed close to the point of arrogance, otherwise it just doesn’t seem authentic. Unconsciously we question whether they have that all -important ‘will to win’. For me, Andy Murray won more fans for losing to Federer at Wimbledon, and letting us see just how much that loss hurt him, than he did by reversing the result several weeks later at The Olympics.

Conversely, because we have a fundamental belief that politicians are – first and foremost -public servants, for us to see them as authentic, (and therefore charismatic), we need them to show far more humility than our ego driven sporting heroes. Our Political Leaders draw their charismatic appeal not from their displays of confidence or self-esteem, but from their vision, driving force and devotion to their mission or purpose. We believed in Nelson Mandela because he showed us, with his suffering and sacrifice, that he really cared. Nobody could ever doubt that Ghandi wasn’t passionate about the plight of his people, or that Martin Luther King not only had a dream, but that he totally believed in it.

In business, the leaders that we recognize as being truly charismatic have the ability to walk that fine line between letting us see that they possess huge drive to be successful, whilst at the same time, demonstrating an appreciation and understanding of their ethical and social responsibilities. The really interesting thing is that, in business, as in politics and sport, at the point when a charismatic leader ceases to be authentic, at the moment when he or she fails to connect at an emotional level, the charisma is lost, and the spell is broken.

First off, let me start this week by wishing you all a happy, healthy, prosperous and abundant New Year. For those of you who have not yet decided upon your New Year Resolution, there is a growing body of evidence supporting the view that committing to understanding and developing our own authentic charismatic potential could well be the quickest and most effective way of creating more of whatever it is that we want in our lives! As we say goodbye to The 12 Days of Christmas and welcome the hope and optimism of the 12 months ahead in 2013, we want to give you 12 reasons why developing your charisma will yield 12 powerful personal benefits;

1) Charismatic people are happier, and build more successful relationships. Charismatic leaders love life, and are celebrators, not complainers. (Joyce Bono, Organisational Psychologist, University of Minnestota)
2) Charismatic people are healthier and less stressed, (Conscious Lifestyle –Facing your Stress, Deepak Chopra)
3) Charismatic people get more of what they want in their lives, by appearing more authoritative, trustworthy, and more like a leader (Prof Antonakis, University of Lausanne)
4) Charismatic People create more freedom for themselves and others and have more leeway to their behaviours than their non-charismatic counterparts. (Platow & Van Knippenberg 2001)
5) Charismatic people feel more secure at work. Survey Results from UK Utilities Company showed an average 26% increase in ‘sense of security at work’. (Charisma Model Programme Dec 2012)
6) Charismatic People are more persuasive because they understand how to build ‘pathos’ and create an emotional connection to a solid logical argument. (John Ramage, Writing Arguments 4th Edition)
7) Charismatic people build higher engagement levels by shifting focus within their team or organisation from self-interest to collective interest. (Ball and Avolio, Journal of Psychology Volume 144, 2010)
8) Charismatic people have higher levels of self-belief. Survey Results showed an average 33% increase in ‘Self Confidence/Self Belief’. (Audience With Charisma At The Globe, September 2012)
9) Charismatic people achieve higher performance levels by stimulating a mindset of creativity, innovation and growth, and by providing guidance, direction and management .(John C Maxwell)
10) Charismatic people enable smoother and faster implementation of change initiatives by engendering co-operation and by fostering a sense of group belonging. (House and Baetz 1979)
11) Charismatic people are more effective as leaders than their non-charismatic counterparts (according to a recent review of research reported in Harvard Business Review June 2012)
12) Charismatic Leaders find it easier to attract and retain talent (The Seven Hidden Reasons Employees Leave)

Whether or not it fits within your own personal belief system, it was well reported that, on December 21, 2012, The Great Mayan Cycle was completed, and the beginning of a New World Age began. For many, December 21, 2012 was a clear marker of the transition of World Ages – a synchronization of the stars inviting all of humanity to open ourselves to the possibilities of positive transformation of consciousness within our human culture.

This year, as we internally align with our personal dreams and aspirations, whether or not we are conscious or aware of any grand shifting of cycles, we can all contribute our personal inspiration and commitment to being part of this “collective transformation of consciousness” simply by being the best that we can be, and by doing what we can to empower and enable those around us to do the same.

I saw an article in a magazine earlier this week asking various celebrities the question: What does Christmas really mean to you? Not surprisingly, common themes seemed to be mostly about travelling home, and spending quality time tucked up safe and secure with loved ones, families and friends. For one or two of the celebrities interviewed Christmas time clearly held a far deeper and spiritual meaning, and they talked about the importance of Midnight Mass, Carol Services and ….. charity.

It got me thinking – what does Christmas really mean to me? I thought about my daughter’s Nativity Play from many, many, years ago. I thought about Mary and Joseph having nowhere to stay, and then bizarrely, I remembered a legendary piece of Nativity Play dialogue that had lodged itself in my unconscious, which went something along the lines of:

Joseph: “Please give us a room. Mary is going to have a baby”.
Innkeeper: “I have no rooms available”
Joseph: “We are desperate”
Innkeeper; “There’s a stable out the back. It’s basic, but it’s warm.”

And suddenly I got it – possibly for the first time ever I considered the vitally important role that the much criticized and maligned Innkeeper played in the Nativity Story. If not for the kindness and charity of this man (and his wife, played beautifully by my little girl over a decade ago) where exactly would the Shepherds, Wise Men and Archangels have visited the baby Jesus today -in a subway perhaps, or a squat, or maybe in the doorway of Superdrug or Primark?

For me, Christmas is all about being at home. It’s about feeling safe and secure and loved. It’s about family traditions and all of those things that help us to feel connected – that give us our identity and sense of belonging. But what about the people that can’t go home? What about the people that won’t be sharing their Christmas with loved ones and family?

I am sure that I am not the only one who has been both moved and troubled by Crisis’ Television Advertisement this year. If you’ve not yet seen, or heard the advert, it is narrated by Sir Ian McKellern, with Silent Night hauntingly played by a Brass Band in the background. Crisis,The National Charity for Single Homeless People, are appealing for us to ‘bring someone in from the cold this Christmas’. The advert explains that for just £20.48 we can book a place for a hot Christmas Dinner, and a warm, safe place to stay with people that really care. Crisis at Christmas will provide a homeless person with a hot shower and clean clothes so that they can feel human again. They will give them a health check which could well save their life, along with housing and job advice bringing hope for a better year ahead, and – for many – opening the door for a whole new life. Last year Crisis gave over 3000 homeless people a truly special Christmas.

According to Leslie Morphy, Chief Executive at Crisis, homelessness is about more than rooflessness. A home is not just a physical space, it also has a legal and social dimension. A home provides roots, identity, a sense of belonging and a place of emotional wellbeing. Homelessness is about the loss of all of these. It is an isolating and destructive experience and homeless people are some of the most vulnerable and socially excluded in our society.

As individuals, at a cellular level we have just two operating mechanisms: we survive, or we grow. A cell can only be in one mechanism at a time. When we feel fear, anxiety, or when we feel threatened, our bodies stimulate cortisol, a stress hormone that effectively causes us to close down. In a working environment a climate of fear and uncertainty damages both the effectiveness of an organization, and the wellbeing of it’s employees.Our cells take their signals from their environment, and long-term exposure to stress hormones damages and kills our cells. Is it any wonder then, that according to The Crisis Impact Report 2012, on average, homeless people die at just 47 years of age?

This Christmas I will count my blessings, and at the same time I will share a thought, and a prayer, for all of those people who won’t be coming home this year.

Merry Christmas to you all, and on behalf of The Charisma Team, we wish you a happy, healthy and abundant 2013.

This week two of The Charisma Team attended The Talent Management Association’s Autumn Conference, opened by what was, by all accounts, an impressive, and well delivered, keynote from Paul Bennett, Director at Henley Business School. Paul talked about the need for ‘Authentic Leadership’ (as opposed to ‘Defiant Leadership’ or ‘Compliant Leadership’). He used the analogy of The Gulf War – Tony Blair being defiant, and the rest of the Cabinet being compliant – to really drive home the point of the potential repercussions when an organisation fails in it’s responsibility to allow talented people to be talented. Paul referred to The Gallup Q12 Employee Engagement Survey, which reports that ‘just 7% of employees feel that they have the opportunity to do what they do best every day’, before asking the audience:

“What does your best at work look like? – and if I was to ask you what your 5 greatest innate strengths are, right now, how many of you would be able to tell me?

In my blog last week I asked if anyone out there was aware of any models which were applying a scientific set of measurable criteria from which an individual’s ‘charisma rating’ or ‘charismatic potential’ can be evaluated. Several people emailed me about Clifton’s StrengthsFinder, which measures the presence of 34 different talent themes. Clifton defines talents as ‘ peoples naturally recurring patterns of thought, feeling or behaviour that can be productively applied’. To my delight this assessment model includes a talent theme called ‘Woo’. Clifton go on to explain that ‘people strong in the Woo theme love the challenge of meeting new people and winning them over. They derive satisfaction from breaking the ice and making a connection with another person.’ What really appeals to me about this definition, along with the definitions of the majority of the other 33 talent themes identified in this model, is the recognition that people derive satisfaction and pleasure from working to, and using their strengths. Charismatic people – or people with strong ‘Woo factor’ – derive satisfaction from making a connection with another person.

Charisma has to be authentic

Our own definition of Charisma is that it is an authentic power that captivates the hearts and minds of others. It is neither defiant nor manipulative. Neither is it compliant or accommodating. Charisma has to be authentic, and for it to be authentic it has to come from within. It is our belief that until somebody genuinely ‘loves the challenge of meeting new people and winning them over’ it is unlikely that any set of carefully rehearsed presentation skills or rapport building techniques will do much to enhance their charismatic presence –it just won’t feel genuine. So whilst we love Clifton’s definition of ‘woo’, we belief that their definition of ‘talent’ is even more insightful. Our naturally recurring patterns of thought, feeling or behavior are all wrapped up in our values and our beliefs about ourselves and about our place in this world. If we want to be truly charismatic, we can be – but first we might need to challenge one or two of those values and beliefs that we’ve been dragging around with us, about what our strengths are, and about what they’re not.

“When you love your job, you will work on yourself so you will be better for your job. You will love it enough to be good at it. If you aren’t doing that, you don’t love your job at all; you love going to that place where you hang out and they pay you for it.”

Larry Winget

“I have always believed that hope is that stubborn thing inside us that insists, despite all the evidence to the contrary, that something better awaits us so long as we have the courage to keep reaching, to keep working, to keep fighting”
My Vision, by Barack Obama

In Chicago last week a rejuvenated and inspired Barack Obama promised the cheering crowd that ‘The best is yet to come’. But across America – and across the world – people are quietly asking; “Is it really?” If Mr. Obama was elected in 2008 on a tide of idealistic and unrealistic hope, this time round he was surely re-elected to confront a set of gritty and very specific issues. Mr Obama won the Electoral Colleges by 100 votes, but the popular vote by just one percent. America is, in terms of engagement, at best neutral and, at worst, outside the cities and away from the coasts, much of the conservative heart is actively disengaged.

Elsewhere this week, The Chartered Institute of Personnel and Development (CIPD) published their Autumn 2012 ‘Employee Outlook’ report. With regard to engagement in the UK, the report shows that the majority of respondents (59%) remain neutral – being neither engaged or disengaged. The report went on to show that just 32% of staff with neutral levels of engagement and just 18% of disengaged employees feel that their personal values match those of the organisation. More than a fifth of respondents cite the importance of all managers, from the chief executive down to line managers, role-modelling the values of the organisation if values are to influence employee behaviour.

As leaders there is much that we can learn from Mr Obama and Presidents of the past. History suggests that the presidents with the most impressive legacies are those who faced the most pressing problems and overcame them: Abraham Lincoln, elected on the eve of The Civil War, Ronald Regan, who battled double-digit inflation and a freezing Cold War, and, probably most relevant of all in these difficult economic times, Franklin D Roosevelt, re-elected in the teeth of The Great Depression. Mr Roosevelt won, and went on to greatness.

In a tough economy as organisations introduce change initiatives to streamline processes, as employees are being tasked to achieve more with fewer resources, and as demands and pressures increasingly become a burden of anxiety, many organisations are recognising that charismatic leadership is becoming vitally important to building engagement, and to sustain success. In the UK, as in the USA, people recognise and understand that there are tough times ahead. Employees may all understand the need for austerity measures, belt tightening, and even job losses, but at the same time will be feeling anxiety, concern and fear. At a time when so many of us are worried and uncertain about what the future holds, is it any surprise that we are looking for somebody to believe in, somebody who has a clear vision of the better place – somebody to follow.

Last week, in his acceptance speech Mr Obama gave a brilliant demonstration of charismatic leadership at it’s very best. By matching and mirroring the mood and concerns of a Nation he showed great empathy and sensory awareness, and he showed that his values are just the same as ours. He talked about stubbornness and the courage to keep reaching, and in so doing demonstrated high energy and driving force. By his use of the words, belief and hope, and by talking about ‘that something better that awaits us’, he showed America, and The World, that he had that all important vision of the way forward, from austerity to prosperity – from survival to growth.

Yesterday, Remembrance Sunday was the day traditionally put aside to remember all those who have given their lives for the peace and freedom we enjoy today. On this day across the nation people pause to reflect on the sacrifices made by our brave Service men and women. It is a fitting time too to remember what can be achieved, against all odds, when a nation rallies behind a truly charismatic leader;

“We shall not flag or fail. We shall go on to the end. We shall fight in France, we shall fight on the seas and the oceans, we shall fight with growing confidence and growing strength in the air, we shall defend our island, whatever the cost may be. We shall fight on the beaches, we shall fight on the landing grounds, we shall fight in the fields and in the streets, we shall fight in the hills; we shall never surrender.”

Today and in the days ahead, I would urge you all to think about the people that look to you for direction, and vision and hope. To what extent do they feel that you understand their fears and share their values? What do you do each day to help build their confidence and self-esteem? How would you rate yourself in terms of your role-model behaviour, driving force and charismatic leadership? Would you feel inspired and excited to follow somebody like you?

What you carry with you...

Last week came to an end with the great news that we are out of the double dip recession with better than expected GDP growth for the third quarter in the UK. It seems that we are on the road to recovery and consumer confidence is beginning to grow. It has come at the right time too as we move into the busiest time of year for businesses. The nation has been through hard times and it is testament to our britishness for making it through. Business will be moving from a period of protection into a period of growth, yet it is what we carry with us that will really count.

During the hard times organisations build up a wall of protection, much like we humans do on a cellular level. When disease attacks out cells we build up a wall to not let anything in. In time the cell begins to die off because not only is the barrier not letting any dis-ease in, it also blocks the good things, the growth. When we operate from a personal point of power, from our truly authentic Charismatic self then we begin to remove the barriers to our performance. Organisations remove the survival mode and step into growth mode.

Yet it is not good enough just to acknowledge that this is so. We need to act on this. Engaging with each and every member of the business and taking time to ensure that the barriers to high performance have been removed. Everyone working towards a shared vision and having the driving force to make it happen. When this is done the energy of the workplace will be restored and the recession will most certainly be a thing of the past. If you move forward and carry the negative of the past with you then you will always hold them as a barrier. Step forward knowing that the past is exactly that and the time growth is now.

Over the years, organisations took their time to embrace new ideas such as NLP, Emotional Intelligence and Social Media believing that they commercial power. Today these same organisations routinely incorporate these methods into their leadership and talent development and marketing programmes. Organisations that view charisma as an intangible and not relevant to their commercial environment are missing a trick, and may wake up to find that their competitors have an advantage, as we move forward from a recession, that can only be attributed to the charisma of their high potential talent and their leadership teams.

Leaders, Mangers, Sales people, Customer Service Agents in fact anyone who has to communicate with anyone else, Your are the messenger. You take a responsibility to communicate with someone and by doing so you take ownership of communication. When you do so, take ownership that is, then you begin to communicate on a level that shows you care about the way you communicate. When you hide behind a message then you begin to switch people off.

Dave was having an enjoyable day, his meeting with his boss had gone well and he knew exactly what he needed to do to motivate his team and push forward with the new sales targets. Performance in the team had taken a drastic dip lately and right now he needed to motivate the team and get them back to high performance. His boss had done a great job of motivating him, this was going to be easy. Dave walked into the team meeting, took his seat at the head of the table and prepared to speak.
“Now, don’t shoot the messenger but Head Office think our performance isn’t up to much and we have to work extra hard to get back on form”. Instantly the energy in the room changed, each person in the team beginning to look angry, then they began to argue with him. Dave was shocked, this wasn’t the motivational speech he had planned.

Dave’s first issue was that he hid behind someone else’s message. Really great communicators not only take ownership of the message but operate from a personal point of power that means they are Charismatic; authentic to themselves and the message. They are also able to relate the needs of the communication to the needs of the individual and present it to them in their version of the world.

It doesn’t matter if you think you’ve communicated well or if you think you’ve been crystal clear, what matters is that your communication is received and acted upon in the manner you wanted. How many times have you said something to another person who has totally misinterpreted what you meant? How many times have you received an email and been upset by it, only to find out the meaning was not to do that? If we can look beyond the communication and try to see a positive intention behind another person’s behaviour then our relationships and interactions with people become more constructive and empowering.

When we communicate with people, if they are don’t get our point then the responsibility is ours to adapt our approach until they do. For example; if Dave had explained the new targets and motivated everyone to achieve the targets creating a belief that it could be done would the team have been angry or motivated. The responsibility for this mis-communication lies with ourselves. Therefore we can only judge the success of what we have communicated based on the reactions we get from other people.

People buy from people, It has been said thousands of times, it never get’s old… why? because it is true. People really do buy from people, you could have the best service in the world but if the customer, prospect or client doesn’t like you then it’s a proven fact that you will not get the business or grow business, and more so in the current climate.

Gone are the days that a business could meet with a client, tell them all about their products and services, do a little negotiation and close a deal. One of the outcomes of the last fews years changing economy has been that customers want more for their money and the expectation to deliver is high. From retail to finance, service industry to manufacturing, everywhere people are involved in business transactions the emphasis is much more focussed on building strong, long lasting, mutual respect relationships.

Charismatic people possess a blend of attractiveness and presence that commands attention with a magnetic force. Charismatic people attract others with ease. When we meet or observe a charismatic person, we are attracted to their energy, believing that their charismatic energy could overspill into our own personality, infecting us, with this magnetic presence.

According to personal development guru, Brian Tracy, there is a close association between personal charisma and success in life. Probably 85 per cent of your success and happiness will come from your relationships and interactions with others. The more positively others respond to you, the easier it will be for you to get the things you want.

Charismatic people exhibit the tendency to inspire greater levels of support and loyalty from others, resulting in an ability to create higher performing teams, stronger relationships with customers and an increased probability that they will be able to lead successfully during any hard time.

Although being charismatic does not guarantee success in business, it does provide an outstanding advantage.

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Individuals with high levels of charisma possess the ability to switch their magnetism off and on. I have heard a story about Marilyn Monroe several times. She was shopping with a friend, who was amazed to see that no one noticed they had a Hollywood star in with them, on the train and in stores. Marilyn demonstrated she could switch her charisma on and immediately a crowd formed around her. Bill Clinton, former US President, is well known for giving you all of his attention one minute and when he talks to someone else you are left feeling bereft.

The ability to switch charisma on or off may well be conscious or un conscious, a matter of instinct, it doesn’t matter. Some people say it is all about charm, and putting on the charm “offensive”…. Yet when those people that do put on a “Charm Offensive” are “being” charismatic it becomes noticeable. They use up vast amounts of energy to do so and can come across as not being authentic. The essence and intensity of a person’s character must be powerfully relayed, so that people feel that the charismatic person is being their genuine, authentic self.

Five tips to letting your authentic charisma shine
Self Esteem
Possessing high self esteem and feeling comfortable in your own skin conveys confidence, by doing so your authentic self will flow naturally. Some people have high amounts of self esteem professionally yet it is lower personally. This is why charisma is contextual.
Driving Force
Living your life on the basis of what is important to you, making sure that what you value is considered and that passion burns deep within you. It serves to motivate you and everyone around you can see that.
Sensory Awareness
Allowing yourself to tap into your feelings, emotions and reactions will allow you to understand theses states within others and let you manage your own state as well as the state of others. Knowing how you impact on the people around you and how they impact on you.
Clear Vision
Charismatic people have a vision of what it is they want to achieve. Having this creates a strong energy that people want to “buy into”. It can create an electricity in yourself and in those around you.
High Energy
Energy is a life force that most people take for granted or accept. Often thinking it is something that someone else creates. You create the energy, your mood is infectious and people around you will want to be infected by the energy you create. Charismatic people know ow to feel good and replenish their own internal energy flow.

So there it is, Marilyn Monroe knew these things about herself. She is a great example of how Charisma can be subjective too. A magnificent woman that everyone flocked to but also had a huge venerability. She managed the flow between these emotions in order to build fellowship from people who wanted to be infected by her Charisma.

Do you know how you are doing in each of these areas? Are you aware of your energy flow and driving force? What not use our Charisma Profiling tool and check?